{"id":455,"date":"2010-07-02T17:09:20","date_gmt":"2010-07-02T07:09:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/?p=455"},"modified":"2010-07-07T16:19:50","modified_gmt":"2010-07-07T06:19:50","slug":"a-birthday-party-with-a-difference","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/?p=455","title":{"rendered":"A Birthday Party with a difference!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last Saturday was Kayline&#8217;s second birthday and Toshi will turn 4 in a few weeks time. We will be in Australia when Toshi has his birthday so told Stephanie (our housemary &#8211; and their mother) that we&#8217;d fund a combined birthday party for them. We view Stephanie and the children as part of our PNG family and we are very fond of them all!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9428-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9428-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"IMG_9428-1\" width=\"566\" height=\"800\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-488\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9428-1.jpg 566w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9428-1-212x300.jpg 212w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 566px) 100vw, 566px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The party was held last Saturday on Kayline&#8217;s birthday. Stephanie did all the planning (she is a great organiser!)and we took her shopping at the market and a couple of tradestores. Nick paid and I crossed items off the list. Masses of food ingredients were purchased and we only bought lollies, balloons, party hats etc at my suggestion. I had previously asked Stephanie how many were attending &#8211; response &#8216;Not too many&#8221;, next question from me &#8211; &#8216;Maybe 15 or 20?&#8217; &#8211; response &#8216;Yes!&#8217; (with a smile). It was obvious by the food we purchased that we were feeding many more than this -but no worries! It quickly became apparent that this was not a children&#8217;s birthday party as we know it! It was a feast for the neighbours and villagers, children and adults alike! And boy do they know how to put on a feast!<\/p>\n<p>Several girls from the village arrived early to help prepare the food<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday2010-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday2010-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"Birthday2010-1\" width=\"800\" height=\"372\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-457\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday2010-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday2010-1-300x139.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Some of &#8216;the boys&#8217; came early too &#8211; but they typically just lazed around for about five hours until the food was on then they came in!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday20101-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday20101-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"Birthday20101-1\" width=\"800\" height=\"751\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-458\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday20101-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday20101-1-300x281.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The birthday kids had new outfits (from the Chinese tradestore!)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9438-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9438-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"IMG_9438-2\" width=\"800\" height=\"654\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-460\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9438-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9438-2-300x245.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Stephanie had a written program and there was a process to follow &#8211; obviously following local customs! Another village truck arrived, Nick&#8217;s Office staff turned up and the neighbours came until there was close to 100 people under our house &#8211; many more adults than children!<\/p>\n<p>The food was put onto the tables (where it sat for an hour or so &#8211; they don&#8217;t mind eating it cold!)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday20103.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday20103.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"Birthday20103\" width=\"596\" height=\"800\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-463\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday20103.jpg 596w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday20103-223x300.jpg 223w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 596px) 100vw, 596px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Then Stephanie officially welcomed everyone (and asked me to do the same!)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9447-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9447-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"IMG_9447-1\" width=\"539\" height=\"800\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-464\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9447-1.jpg 539w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9447-1-202x300.jpg 202w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 539px) 100vw, 539px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Next everyone gathered around the cake and sang Happy Birthday &#8211; and May God Bless You (imagine that at an Aussie kids&#8217; party!!!)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9465.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9465.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"IMG_9465\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-465\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9465.jpg 800w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9465-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll digress slightly here with a story about the cake &#8211; a local store has a bakery section and does cakes. I ordered one and requested just Happy Birthday and the kids&#8217; names to be on it. When I went to collect it this is what it looked like (they obviously needed to fill the cake with writing!) &#8211; don&#8217;t you just love the &#8216;cheers&#8217; at the end! I might add that the cake inside was three layers of VERY dark red, green and brown! One lady I know ordered a cake and on the order form where you had to write the message she wrote &#8216;No message&#8217; &#8211; and that&#8217;s what was written on her cake &#8211; so I didn&#8217;t fare too badly!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9415.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9415.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"IMG_9415\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-466\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9415.jpg 800w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9415-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>After they sang Happy Birthday, there was the &#8216;presentation of gifts&#8217; &#8211; everyone lined up (and it was a long line!) and little Kayline and Toshi shook hands with each person and said thank you &#8211; without being allowed to open any gifts yet &#8211; had to wait until the end of the day! &#8211; can&#8217;t see many children at home managing that!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9473.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9473.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"IMG_9473\" width=\"534\" height=\"800\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-468\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9473.jpg 534w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9473-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 534px) 100vw, 534px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Next, one of the elders from the village said a prayer before Kai Kai (food!) then the feasting began. The kids lined up <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9491.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9491.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"IMG_9491\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-469\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9491.jpg 800w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9491-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>and plates were piled high with food! Even this little two and a half year old neighbour helped herself &#8211; and she ate that whole plate full! Many of the Nationals only eat breakfast and one main meal a day &#8211; often rice based.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9496.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9496.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"IMG_9496\" width=\"534\" height=\"800\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-470\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9496.jpg 534w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9496-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 534px) 100vw, 534px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>After some time, there was the cutting of the cake<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9548-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9548-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"IMG_9548-1\" width=\"664\" height=\"800\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-473\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9548-1.jpg 664w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9548-1-249x300.jpg 249w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 664px) 100vw, 664px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>and my cupcakes were allowed to come downstairs &#8211; they were popular &#8211; and for many of them &#8211; never seen before!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/birthday-20101.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/birthday-20101.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"birthday 20101\" width=\"800\" height=\"637\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-474\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/birthday-20101.jpg 800w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/birthday-20101-300x238.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The lollies and whistles were handed out and in line with tradition, Stephanie, as the hostess, had icing from the cake rubbed through her hair!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9527-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9527-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"IMG_9527-1\" width=\"605\" height=\"800\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-479\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9527-1.jpg 605w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9527-1-226x300.jpg 226w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 605px) 100vw, 605px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9539.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9539.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"IMG_9539\" width=\"534\" height=\"800\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-477\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9539.jpg 534w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9539-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 534px) 100vw, 534px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Nick and I had to leave late afternoon as we were going out to a curry night. We took plenty of photos so here are some more favourites!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday20104.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday20104.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"Birthday20104\" width=\"761\" height=\"800\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-478\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday20104.jpg 761w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday20104-285x300.jpg 285w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 761px) 100vw, 761px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nI&#8217;m a sucker for those big brown eyes!!!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/birthday-2010.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/birthday-2010.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"birthday 2010\" width=\"800\" height=\"614\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-482\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/birthday-2010.jpg 800w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/birthday-2010-300x230.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\none of several favourite photos of the day! love that hair!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday20102.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday20102.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"Birthday20102\" width=\"739\" height=\"800\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-484\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday20102.jpg 739w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/Birthday20102-277x300.jpg 277w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 739px) 100vw, 739px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nThe funniest moment of the afternoon &#8211; I was taking a photo of Kayline and Toshi and went to straighten Kayline&#8217;s dress &#8211; she pushed my hand away and said &#8216;Heh!&#8217;. I then realised she had commandeered the bag of balloons and was hiding them in her pants. She then went over by the fence to finish the job!!! I love this little girl &#8211; so full of personality!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9424.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mijts.net\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9424.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"IMG_9424\" width=\"472\" height=\"800\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-486\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9424.jpg 472w, https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/IMG_9424-177x300.jpg 177w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 472px) 100vw, 472px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nKayline with her great uncle &#8211; one of the elder men of the village &#8211; typically wearing his laplap as most of the older folk do!<\/p>\n<p>All in all &#8211; a very different kids&#8217; party &#8211; but a great local experience for us!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last Saturday was Kayline&#8217;s second birthday and Toshi will turn 4 in a few weeks time. We will be in Australia when Toshi has his birthday so told Stephanie (our housemary &#8211; and their mother) that we&#8217;d fund a combined birthday party for them. We view Stephanie and the children as part of our PNG [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-455","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/455","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=455"}],"version-history":[{"count":19,"href":"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/455\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":493,"href":"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/455\/revisions\/493"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=455"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=455"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mijts.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=455"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}